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In lesbian relationships, is one partner dominant in bed?

esquire.com — Our sexpert tackles your bedroom conundrums.

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  • cheezintern, on 09/08/2008, -4/+171scissor me timbers
  • chrissipe, on 09/08/2008, -0/+10first two letters/responses were pretty funny. Going to have to read this column regularly.
  • BennyGreenberg, on 09/09/2008, -4/+18dugg for dominant lesbians!
  • jgatz, on 09/09/2008, -1/+50I meant to ask lesbians this for a long time
    fortunately digg saved me the trouble
    • emecks, on 09/09/2008, -0/+36and possibly a black eye ;)
    • houndeyex, on 09/09/2008, -2/+4Furthermore, who puts "Head of Household" on the taxes? Someone's gotta be the man.
    • jd33, on 09/09/2008, -0/+4oooh, kinky
  • TPorter72, on 09/09/2008, -1/+19I like to imagine so.
  • Hodor, on 09/09/2008, -1/+18why wouldn't there be?
    • ceramufary, on 09/10/2008, -0/+3Why *would* there be? Are you always dominant in bed? Or always submissive in bed? C'mon, don't you like it when she takes the lead sometimes?

      It's a dumb question and deserved a dumb answer; luckily, it got a pretty good answer.
  • BXRWXR, on 09/09/2008, -4/+10Finally! A Digg article worthy of extended and well educated discussion!
  • GamerX, on 09/09/2008, -3/+37There's always a dominant partner on every relation, no matter it's hetero or *****....

    * oh, hi hun! no, I'm not digging again, just finishing some work. No, please, trust me!! AAARGH.WD"!!E3!"·!" ·!"$S
    • singularityv, on 09/09/2008, -9/+4Heh.

      Yeah, that's the main reason I have zero interest in relationships...
  • tyho, on 09/09/2008, -0/+41Yes, these are the questions that keep me up at night.
  • Treoinmypocket, on 09/09/2008, -11/+2Of course but I prefer bisexual girls...then I AM the dominant partner...
  • sockpuppets, on 09/09/2008, -5/+61I admit, I'm bisexual.




    I like to buy sex.
    • leerayIG88, on 09/09/2008, -1/+3Ever thought of making a porn video?
    • perfectsilence, on 09/09/2008, -2/+24I am buy-curious.
    • FreeTalkLIve, on 09/09/2008, -1/+21I'm trisexual.

      I try to have sex as often as possible.
    • lukas88, on 09/10/2008, -0/+8I'm dodecasexual.

      I like to role play.
  • ArmedRebel, on 09/09/2008, -9/+4"Tops" and "bottoms" in lesbian sex...is there a difference?
    • tykwondingo, on 09/09/2008, -9/+5crotch to crotch ::CUT, CUT, CUT, CUT, CUM:: bitches scissor, buddy.
      • GassyTurd, on 09/10/2008, -1/+1You nearly made me choke on my soup and crackers. Thanks for the laugh.
      • tykwondingo, on 09/10/2008, -1/+1I was listening to HORSE the band when I posted that comment, it seemed appropriate in my head - The breakdown to 'Cutsman'. It has nothing to do with lesbians but it was still "so bad".

    • eggsovereasy, on 09/09/2008, -8/+2Top and bottom has more to do with their relationship than position in sex for Lesbians. Tops tend to fall more into the role a male would play in a classical relationship.
  • shauntacular, on 09/09/2008, -0/+11No, from what I've seen they both get equal time.
  • Kenzan, on 09/09/2008, -3/+3An interesting and intriguing question.
    I'll have to review extensive Video of this in order to reach a proper conclusion.
  • theillest1, on 09/09/2008, -5/+5I won't be convinced until I see an in-depth video analysis of this alleged lesbian cooter bumpin...
  • rozers, on 09/09/2008, -19/+1homosexuality definitely deserves respect, no one chooses it anyway though...

    am I right?.I mean, a cripple doesn't choose to have lost both arms.
    • Rendonsmug, on 09/09/2008, -1/+5Wow, that guy with no arms must really think you're an ass.
    • hellmit, on 09/09/2008, -1/+3And why would it make a damn difference if they did in fact choose it? It is very narrow minded and disrespectful to think there must be something wrong with someone who makes different choices. Did you ever stop and think that homosexuality is simply what they like and that don't particularly give a ***** about how much assholes like you think it "cripples" them.
      This is the reason that homosexuality is not accepted into our society. If people would learn to see it as a choice and not treat people like freaks then there would be a lot more acceptance.
    • langdonalger, on 09/10/2008, -0/+4@rozers
      do all scientologists like you consider homosexuality a disability?
  • doremon313, on 09/09/2008, -8/+15My lesbian friend is a bottom, she likes it when her girlfriend sticks her finger in her...........................................................................................................................................therefore dominant parter do exist, ooo the things you learn with lesbians haha
    • xsquirrel378x, on 09/09/2008, -11/+8TOO MUCH INFORMATION!

      no one wants to hear about your nasty butch friends
      • LeviTheSmith, on 09/09/2008, -3/+15i do
      • xsquirrel378x, on 09/09/2008, -4/+12^
        you realize you can stream tons of videos of such stuff for free? instead you would rather listen to some idiot on digg talk about his friends. you are pathetic.
  • lukas88, on 09/09/2008, -1/+39I'm pretty sure using the word "sexpert" is immediate grounds for an open handed slap
    • GassyTurd, on 09/10/2008, -0/+1*nervously rubs the huge tattoo on his shoulders*
    • DroppedGT, on 09/10/2008, -0/+1well give your hand some sexercise on the posters face.
  • justinjarratt, on 09/09/2008, -13/+4No one person has to be dominant in ANY relationship...
  • thespanielator, on 09/09/2008, -2/+7http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/subcultures/g/Dies ...

    scarey
  • drbonemonkey, on 09/09/2008, -2/+5Hrmmm, I will have to do some research on the topic. Now, if I could only find two hot lesbians willing to let me video tape them get down and dirty.
  • abrasion, on 09/09/2008, -3/+5I wouldn't be surrpised if less than 2% of digg readers are actually lesbian, furthermore, I wouldn't be surprised if less than .01% of digg readers are lesbians, in a relationship and with another person who frequents digg.

    • JRobinson1026, on 09/09/2008, -1/+8I'm a lesbian. So's my wife. She isn't on digg though. Are we disqualified?? Both femme at least... That little article is ridiculous imho.
      • RockSlice, on 09/10/2008, -0/+3Well, I was about to respond that for there to be any lesbians on digg, there would have to first be girls, but you ruined that :)
      • GassyTurd, on 09/10/2008, -0/+5fap
      • ModernGeek, on 09/10/2008, -0/+2Your friend michelle is hot (Imafilmmaker), is she single and straight?
      • abrasion, on 09/10/2008, -0/+1Not disqualified, just kinda proving my point about the quantity of lesbians on digg, (and considering how men react to lesbians, it's no wonder, it must get pretty tiring to just be regarded as toys for men to be honest)

      • RockMuncher, on 09/10/2008, -0/+2Ditto. I'm a lesbian, on digg, and couldn't help but roll my eyes a little reading the link.

        Why it seems like the straight community (some of you guys, not all of you) gets gay/lesbian people confused with dominance and submissive fetish role players I'll never know.

        I suppose I'd be.. soft butch if I bothered to define myself like that, and my girlfriend butch. But then... neither one of us really fit perfectly into roles anyway... seeing as we're human beings.
  • petebot, on 09/09/2008, -2/+13Just as I predicted, all dudes in here...I am a psychic!
  • borez, on 09/09/2008, -2/+11It swaps, as in every relationship
  • jd33, on 09/09/2008, -8/+2Depends.... when I'm there, they're both submissive.
  • zdiggler, on 09/09/2008, -4/+7Well. My job requires me from going to different places all the time, occasionally I'll run into those ***** people. Yes, they do have order, lesbian couple, you will see one do all the bills and make place pretty(sometime both) one will clean, build fix stuff around the house. One won't care much about stuff and other will just bitch at just about anything.

    Same thing with gay people as well. they have their pack order.
  • kailash079, on 09/09/2008, -0/+12im willing to pretend to be a girl to experiment
  • mohsenxp, on 09/09/2008, -3/+23The only lesbians worth fantasising about are porn lesbians, i.e not lesbians.
  • Spankus, on 09/09/2008, -1/+8I lost my watch fisting a midget...does that count?
  • Sommerlost, on 09/09/2008, -2/+3I sure hope so..
  • kevdotbadger, on 09/09/2008, -0/+12I have sex sperts, all over the damn place.
  • yossarian24, on 09/09/2008, -0/+4Actually pretty poorly written as far as sex columns go.
  • ryan69969, on 09/09/2008, -1/+9Oldie but goodie:

    What does a lesbian bring with her on the second date?

    A U-Haul.
    • yosempai, on 09/09/2008, -2/+4A turkey baster?
    • heartsblood, on 09/09/2008, -2/+6I don't get it.
    • ryan69969, on 09/09/2008, -0/+13It was told to me by a lesbian, actually. It means that they can be very clingy and dive recklessly into relationships.
  • dagr8tim, on 09/09/2008, -0/+2REPOST!!!!

    Not to mention I read that article in the mag almost a month ago.
  • addrake, on 09/09/2008, -0/+3giggity
  • consciousNOT, on 09/09/2008, -5/+7What do you call a nymphomaniac, lesbian dinosaur?


    A likkalottapus.

    /thank you! Try the veal!
    • mojoel, on 09/09/2008, -0/+10That joke is as old as a lesbian dinosaur.
    • ceramufary, on 09/10/2008, -0/+4But... that doesn't even follow dinosaur naming conventions. How is it funny? is it funny?


      Also worst article ever, except for the response to the question about lesbians, which is actually pretty true. Except that it's way more fluid and complicated than that.
  • charlietuna, on 09/09/2008, -0/+5Esquire used to be a snobby yuppie magazine, and at least it was honest about what it was. Now it's just a pretentious version of Maxim, Gear or Stuff.
  • Rikkochet, on 09/09/2008, -0/+12'[On losing an erection] Lonnie Barbach, human-sexuality specialist and author of dozens of books and hypnosis tapes, suggests offering her incentives such as, "Even my soft penis feels great when you touch it."'

    I will saw off my own head with a hand saw before I say something so humiliatingly desperate in bed.
    • drgmdp, on 09/10/2008, -0/+2it's ok, there are many other humiliatingly desperate phrases you can use
  • pcpimpster, on 09/09/2008, -2/+9Yeah, the one with the bigger black dildo.
  • personalspace, on 09/09/2008, -0/+7"thus throwing a real wrench into my dinner parties"

    That double entendre is mind blowing!

    Epic.
  • mattlohkamp, on 09/09/2008, -2/+6wow, this article is right up there with the one about Radcliffe expressing interest in playing a cross-dresser - digg's selection is getting kinda lame.
  • AmericanGunner, on 09/09/2008, -1/+3you lost me at sexpert.
  • darkfire79, on 09/09/2008, -1/+3my cats a lesbian. Well, one of them at least. The other one is pretty straight... I think.
    • Ortheos, on 09/10/2008, -1/+4How did you test this hypothesis? Did you utilize the old penis in kitty trick?

  • sndream, on 09/09/2008, -3/+3"Lonnie Barbach, human-sexuality specialist and author of dozens of books and hypnosis tapes, suggests offering her incentives such as, "Even my soft penis feels great when you touch it."

    That's the dumbest sex advice I ever heard, even dumber than the penis pump spam, by now, anyone with a email should know about Viagra!!!!! But I guess any moron who take his advice or brought the hypnosis tapes deserve to be humiliated.
  • kevL0CK, on 09/09/2008, -1/+2yes. i thought that's what dykes were for....
  • badken, on 09/10/2008, -0/+1Hilarious...

    "Do you know what happens when you implicitly violate girl rules? You have to go to girl court and have a girl trial, and believe me, you don't want to sit through one of those."
  • TwwIX, on 09/10/2008, -0/+3Whoever uses the strap on,no?
  • Nightenglow, on 09/10/2008, -0/+0The one with the buzz cut
  • luteslinger, on 09/10/2008, -0/+3buried due to lack of lesbian diggers in this thread
  • ell0bo, on 09/10/2008, -0/+5I'm sure they both just awkwardly lay there...
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