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Sexy Time, All The Time

theglobeandmail.com — In Just Do It: How One Couple Turned Off the TV and Turned On Their Sex Lives for 101 Days (No Excuses), Douglas & Annie Brown go on a "sexpedition" that incorporates not just a new sex schedule, but silk pjs, porn & other adventurous accessories. And in 365 Nights Ms. Muller gives a year of unlimited sex to her husband, Brad, for his 40th Bday.

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  • AlexWiggy, on 06/21/2008, -14/+10Let me join?
  • ursername180, on 06/21/2008, -5/+49Dugg for 'sexpedition'.
  • crowbarred, on 06/21/2008, -2/+53Only time you ever see me say this .... "Pictures ... or it didnt happen"
  • FlyingPhotog, on 06/21/2008, -7/+43Best. Wife. Ever!
  • DivineMonkey, on 06/21/2008, -9/+4/sexytime
  • MarianaPeyton, on 06/21/2008, -2/+10Sex is fun, pleasuring, and now healthy!!
  • yowhat2002, on 06/21/2008, -4/+10Bow Chicka Wow Wow

    OOhhhh yeeaahhhh.
  • trumpcard, on 06/21/2008, -1/+8Cover it before humping some random person.
  • JazminMillion, on 06/21/2008, -3/+2The TV is bad for us? When did we figure that out?
  • ep53, on 06/21/2008, -23/+5. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . _________
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  • bsmeteronhigh2, on 06/21/2008, -0/+22Lame. Article mentions couple who did it, then the "experts" chime in. Snore.
  • mrjofo, on 06/21/2008, -2/+1I can't wait for the crossover book.
  • rockpeteuk, on 06/21/2008, -0/+9i cant wait till im 40
    • Foot56, on 06/21/2008, -0/+6Funny I was driving by the local high school and my dad who is 56 wished he was 16 again.
    • alex7575, on 06/21/2008, -0/+6I'm 33 and getting more and more terrified of becoming 40, midlife crisis is a bitch, and I can't afford buying a convertible...
      • Millsee, on 06/21/2008, -0/+6I'm 34, I feel the same.

        It's time to stop worrying though, 40 will be here soon so let us enjoy it while we can!
    • OfficialJoe, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1If you are an average Digg user then I'm afraid, you'll just have to
  • phlud, on 06/21/2008, -9/+5Gigiddy
  • summerpuente, on 06/21/2008, -3/+37I've always believed this to be true as a girlfriend too, and if I'm ever a wife, I know I stick by this. Withholding sex is a terrible terrible thing for women to do to their men-- it's the healthiest regular action that a couple can do together. Props to these couples who fixed their relationships where they saw a need!
    • tweetsa, on 06/21/2008, -1/+16pretending to be a girl on the internet is creepy, bro
    • alex7575, on 06/21/2008, -2/+6Have you ever been on a relationship for longer than 10 years? It's not the lack of sex that starts becoming a problem, but the lack of spontaneity.

      We have a kid now, so sex is very complicated, we almost have to schedule it ahead of time, now how's that sexy? So the problem is that sex becomes so mechanical, that sometimes is not really all that worth it, and the vicious circle begins.
      • Paranor01, on 06/21/2008, -1/+2That's when you turn it into a game.
        Turn the complexity around, you get spontinaity again.
        • alex7575, on 06/21/2008, -1/+1We try that on and off, good advice anywhoo...

          PS: how do you start with 0 (zero) diggs?! (lol)
      • megamod, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1I bet if I asked that question to your husband privately he would disagree..

        mechanical or not it's still sex (unless you're talking about mechanical as in a sybian machine).
    • 007isbond1, on 06/21/2008, -0/+2very creepy indeed.
    • summerpuente, on 06/21/2008, -0/+5I'm definitely not a guy.
    • 007isbond1, on 06/21/2008, -3/+7Rule #15 of The Internet:
      There are NO girls on the internet. NO EXCEPTIONS
      http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Rules_of_the_inte ...
  • Aldhelm, on 06/21/2008, -2/+1Couple? There has to be an another person involved in this. :(
  • verevi, on 06/21/2008, -4/+15um, there are a few days of those 101 that are not ideal for sex if you know what I mean....
    • Krissam, on 06/21/2008, -0/+7Real men prefer ketchup for their "sausage".

      and to quote a slightly gross bash.org quote:
      it takes a real man to drink from red waters, but it takes a hero to drink from the fountain
      • malen, on 07/01/2008, -0/+0I believe the quote is...

        "It takes a brave man to swim in the Red waters, but it takes a hero to drink from it."
    • TheScreamer, on 06/21/2008, -0/+2During "that time of the month", my wife uses a product called "Instead" (see www.softcup.com ). When she does, I don't even know she's using it, or that it's "that time". We have clean sex any day or night we want :)
      • lisaawesome, on 06/21/2008, -0/+2Way to go for promoting "alternative" menstrual products. I know this knowledge isn't applicable for many of the visitors of this site but seriously there are other, better options than tampons or pads. Some of them like the Instead allow you to have sex without the guy having any clue you're ragging. There's a whole world out there beyond tampax and kotex. Also why do so many name brand lady products have the letter x at the end?
    • jpnadia, on 06/21/2008, -0/+5Humans are washable, and all sex is messy, whether it's just sweat and spunk or something more.
    • MtheoryX, on 06/21/2008, -0/+6When the river runs red, take the dirt road instead?
    • Gandalf904, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1Or you can just hit the shower, that cleans everything up.
  • InMSWeAntitrust, on 06/21/2008, -2/+11You know, I was fine with the article until... DUN DUN DUN
    "...some months were harder than others (pun intended)"

    http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=pu ...
  • drgnflyblu5, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1Must have been a few crime scenes i would imagine
  • MizanWtf, on 06/21/2008, -0/+3Now that is whats up.
    Lets make ze Sexy Time
    A Happy time. =]
  • TripleAStacked, on 06/21/2008, -2/+2Lucky Bastard!
  • cowsgonemadd3, on 06/21/2008, -0/+3I bet they are a skinny couple.
  • flashingcurser, on 06/21/2008, -0/+17"Wanting to have sex once a month is not a problem; wanting to have sex once a day is not a problem," he said. "But if someone wants it once a day and the other wants it once a year, the middle ground is never going to work for either one of them."

    Dr. Obvious to the rescue.
    • megamod, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1when did he graduate from Captain?
    • lisaawesome, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1Even though it's an obvious statement I've known a few marriages that broke up because one person wanted it all the time and the other wanted it rarely to never. I'm sure things were different in these marriages when they first got together but I've got to suspect there was at least a smaller initial disparity between each partner's wants that was never discussed and ultimately became much larger.
  • loudog, on 06/21/2008, -1/+3Red Wings people.....Red Wings...........
    • scotticus, on 06/21/2008, -0/+3No, the Stanley Cup Finals isn't even an excuse.
    • Salmar, on 06/21/2008, -0/+2I was thinking the same thing. Was they incorporate oral play during that time, or did they just go for it in the shower, etc?
    • MtheoryX, on 06/21/2008, -1/+1Detroit sucks.
  • hinmanj, on 06/21/2008, -7/+1I recently had a chat with Dell support over a broken blu-ray drive... They said they were sending me a replacement drive, a week later I got a box with a SATA cable in it. I would have rather had the phone sex line number...
    • MtheoryX, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1And over in the Dell article, a buncha people are wondering why you're commenting about daily sex.
  • shftleft, on 06/21/2008, -6/+3Sex is dumb.
    • scotticus, on 06/21/2008, -0/+6Then call me a ***** retard.
    • Paranor01, on 06/21/2008, -0/+0Were you turned into a Newt?
    • sanman, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1which is why Diggers consider themselves smarter than average...
  • TinternAbbot, on 06/21/2008, -0/+6I'm going to get dugg down for saying this, but is it rare to have sex every day?
    • scotticus, on 06/21/2008, -0/+6Yes. I think the statistics point to sex 1-2 times a week in most couples.
    • jpnadia, on 06/21/2008, -1/+3I wouldn't say it's rare. Assuming a bell curve, your statistical averages allow for deviation to either side of the stated mean, so for couples that have sex on average one or two times a month, there must logically be a couple who has sex on average five nights a week. For a couple that rarely has sex (to the order of perhaps 1-2 times a year), there would be the equivalent of a couple that tumbles into bed at every available opportunity and at some opportunities that probably aren't available in the strictest sense of the word. (This latter couple shows up to social events flushed and out of breath and apologizes for its lateness while exchanging knowing looks, much to the irritation of all present who simply don't care.)

      What would ostensibly be rarer is the kind of regimented daily sex described in the article. There's having sex "pretty much every day" which allows for one member of the couple to be out of sorts or away from time to time, and then there's deciding "Every day, we will have sex, and the time for sex will be 9:00 PM every day, and we will not miss days".

      And actually, the sex that went on was the former (and well within the bounds of normalcy): FTA, "They had sex between 26 and 28 times a month throughout the year." The math on this works out to be 312-336 nights of intimacy, not the advertised 365.
  • theherbalguy, on 06/21/2008, -0/+0They could use some herbal sex tonics to stimulate their libidos. That could help end the dry spells!
    • Stroggoth, on 06/21/2008, -1/+0You don't need drugs to have sex, unless there is an impotence issue. Go away.
  • Jonez176, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1I want to know more about said "adventurous accessories".
  • JointVenture, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1What does she look like?
  • laserblazer, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1She's a hero.
  • NightflyLester, on 06/21/2008, -0/+0Charla Muller FTW !!!!!
  • SA007, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1We need pictures!
  • deaftly, on 06/21/2008, -0/+1FISSION MCCOMPLISHED
  • plecostomus, on 06/21/2008, -0/+9I wish it wasn't described as that one woman "giving sex" to her husband. It sounds like she bought him a 365-day supply of new polo shirts.
    • sanman, on 06/21/2008, -0/+4yeah, she's supposed to want to get something out of it herself

      who wants to have sex with somebody who isn't going to enjoy it?
    • lisaawesome, on 06/21/2008, -0/+4That just reinforces the idea that sex is a chore for wives. It's a horribly antiquated idea that promotes sexual dissatisfaction and dysfunction for both parties. I imagine most men don't want to ***** a woman who is acting like nothing more than a sausage warmer.
  • kingp, on 06/21/2008, -0/+2Aren't there online pharmacies that can help us increase our sex life? I hear about them all the time...
  • londubh, on 06/21/2008, -1/+4This is of little use to most diggers. They have to have a sex partner first.
  • zdiggler, on 06/21/2008, -2/+1Me any g/f tried to do it everyday but its get boreing after like 10 days and we feel that it doesn't mean anything any more.
  • lisaawesome, on 06/21/2008, -0/+6Bah. I never get laid. This article had to remind me of that.
  • cryonix, on 06/21/2008, -1/+1not to sound gross or vulgar, but every day? seriously? period sex isn't very pleasant.
    • Ortheos, on 06/22/2008, -0/+2What the hell old chap. What the hell. Partner induced orgasm every day = not pleasant?
  • IrishKeith, on 06/23/2008, -0/+2I'm married 12 years now and I would do anything to have sex everyday. Once a week is not enough.
    • diversionmary, on 09/13/2008, -0/+1I'm married 3 years now and I would do anything to have sex weekly. Once a month is not enough.
  • CaptainM4d, on 06/23/2008, -0/+1"Wanting to have sex once a month is not a problem; wanting to have sex once a day is not a problem," he said. "But if someone wants it once a day and the other wants it once a year, the middle ground is never going to work for either one of them."

    rofl
  • zs7379, on 06/29/2008, -0/+0Thanks for this info..

    http://www.antique--furniture.blogspot.com/
  • greeneyedgirl63, on 06/30/2008, -0/+0Big round of applause for all of us who are 40 and above. Sex is good for your health!!!
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